Part III. So, It’s Only A Thunderstorm. It’s Not A Hurricane. Now, What Do I Do? Conclusion (With Inspiration From Pearl Jam, Max Machowicz, and the late North Carolina State basketball coach, Jim Valvano. )
The mind is grey,... like the city
Packing in and overgrown
Love is deep,... dig it out
Standing in a hole alone
Working for something,.. that we can never hold
A place in the clouds.
Your place to hide oh my oh
I'm flying away, away
I'm driving away, away
The TV, she talks to me
Breaking news and building walls
Selling us, what I don’t need
Didn't know soap made you taller
So I'm riding away, away
Hiding away, away
So much talk it makes no sense at all
So I'm flying away, away
Driving away, away...
It doesn't hurt,.. when I bleed
But memories they eat me
I've seen it all before,..
Bring it on cause I'm no victim
Pearl Jam- Ghost
“Your attitude permeates your entire approach to life. What does it cost you to start from a point of thinking there are more things going for you than going against you? What a fantastic foundation to build your attitude upon.” Mack Machowicz
3. Become open
My experience, is that both traditional and non-traditional medical practitioners can be dogmatic. If I find what I believe is good evidence that being treated by something might help, I am willing to try it. I take a variety of supplements that seem to help, the Brascoe and Rubin nutrition plan seems to help, and taking Azasan seems to help. I am certain that there are those who will argue pro or con with everything I do too treat my condition. All our bodies are different, and I would not expect that all of us will respond to the same treatment protocol.
4. Listen To Music, Play Music, Or Both!
Music saved my life. That last sentence will require many blog posts to explain, and I will explain the sentence the week of May 3rd-May 9th. I believe that music can be a life saver for many people, and I’m not the only one who thinks so. According to research at Penn St. University, any music can improve one’s mood. Researchers at PSU reported that after listening to music, listeners negative emotions were reduced, and listeners positive emotions were intensified by music. The lead researcher at PSU said, “Every positive mood except loving rose in intensity after episodes of listening to music.” For further reading about how music can improve the quality of, or save one’s life, you might want to read how Miguel at the Contrapundist blog says that music saved him from joining a gang.
5. Set Goals and Have Dreams
Below, are some quotes that explain why I believe that it is important to set goals and pursue dreams. (All quotes came from- http://www.goal-setting-guide.com/quote-goal.html)
“People with goals succeed because they know where they're going.”
Earl Nightingale
“If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”
Henry David Thoreau
“My philosophy of life is that if we make up our mind what we are going to make of our lives, then work hard toward that goal, we never lose - somehow we win out.”
Ronald Reagan
“Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.”
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
“You don't get to choose how you're going to die, or when. You can decide how you're going to live now.”
Joan Baez
“The world makes way for the man who knows where he is going.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Goals determine what you're going to be.”
Julius Erving
“Life's up and downs provide windows of opportunity to determine your values and goals. Think of using all obstacles as stepping stones to build the life you want.”
Marsha Sinetar
Here are a few of my goals:
Maintain remission in my chronic medical conditions. Become a professional speaker and writer. I’ve begun using Max Machowicz’ Carver Matrix to help break down my goals into targets, and have found his method extremely useful.
6. Treat Depression and Anxiety Immediately
I’ve experienced depression, and I believe that it is more insidious than ulcerative colitis. Unfortunately, I have experienced chronic anxiety also, and believe that anxiety is just as harmful as ulcerative colitis. According to the NIMH, suicide is the 11th leading cause of death of Americans, and the 3rd leading cause of death for 15-24 year olds in the U.S. Depression is the leading cause of suicide in the United States. Enough said! For further reading about depression, I discussed depression in two earlier blog posts- “What Millions Of Us Have In Common With Kurt Cobain,” and “March Madness, David Foster Wallace, Elliot Smith, and Broken Windows.”
“What most people don’t understand, though, is that we don’t win because we are a bunch of bad-asses- we’re a tough bunch of bad-asses, because we do our homework and refuse to quit.” Max Machowicz
7. Never Give Up! Never Give Up!
Former Navy Seal, and current writer, TV host, and martial arts expert, Max Machowicz, says that, “Being a warrior is not about the act of fighting. It is about being so prepared to face a challenge and believing so strongly in the cause you are fighting for that you refuse to quit.” Max also states that, “I’m a SEAL now even though I’m not doing the job. That means not being the strongest, or fastest, or even the smartest. It’s simply a matter of being the one who does not quit-and that’s an ability available to anyone.” Those of us with ulcerative colitis and Crohn’s disease are blessed that we have a disease that will not kill our bodies. We must not allow these illnesses to kill our spirits either! One of my favorite examples of a human beings who would not allow an illness to kill his spirit is the late North Carolina State coach, Jim Valvano . If you have never watched his “Never Give Up Speech,” please consider setting aside ten minutes to watch it. Here is the video:
I hope that this post is useful to everyone who reads it, but I hope that the post is especially useful to those who live with Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis! Please leave your comments below, or contact me directly. (My contact info is in the sidebar.)
Thanks for stopping by! Bill












